NOTE: For girls only.
This is about how to make your crush like you backs.
Has flirting ever across your mind? Whenever you think of your cute-at-the-party-guy, crush or special someone, did you think about what does it feels to flirt with him? Will he accept your flirting gestures or not?
Well..now is the time to throw all your what ifs and satisfy your curiosities.
First things first.
Flirting is not as easy as saying hi to someone. Flirting has one purpose, to attract the guy you like and make him interested in you.
Step number one: Make yourself presentable, pretty, and attractive.
*Scientist studied that guys are instinctively attracted with the color RED. So, wear this color in order to catch his attention.
*Wear dangling earrings. They draw attention to the smooth curves of our neck— it’s a classy way to subtly show skin.
*Spritz some perfume on your. So that if a guy will HUG you, he will smell your wonderful scent.
Now that you are ready.. let’s proceed to Step number two: Make yourself visible to him.
*Master the bump-and-flatter, this is the most common way to make him notice you. (eg. Run into a cute guy at a crowded party. Say,
“Oh, sorry — I become a total klutz around cute guys.” Then just introduce yourself.)
*Let your crush/ “target” catch you looking at him. When he finally sees you looking at him, SMILE. This is the go sign that he should approach you.
*Nowadays, it is legal if the girl is the aggressive type. So, be obvious! (eg. When you’re playing volleyball and fortunately, he’s there. Throw the ball towards him (but not too hard), an exaggerated apology will let him know that you’re flirting with him.)
*Post status updates about movies, shows or games you’re going to see — if he’s a fan too, he’ll have a reason to comment (and you’ll have an excuse to invite him along!).
*Pretend you already know a guy you want to talk to. When you “realize” the mistake, say, “Oh, I thought you were someone else, but you’re actually cuter.”
*Call him out. When you notice a guy checking you out, let him know you’re onto him and you’ll ooze confidence. A laid-back joke (“Please don’t tell me I have something in my teeth!”) will make him laugh, so it’s not too bold.
*Send a quick flirt text a minute after you trade numbers. It will take him by surprise and make him smile.
*Keep gum or Tic Tacs in your purse.”Want one?” is the world’s easiest icebreaker.
Now that you have established some connections with him, make this stronger by doing the Step number three: Make the bonds stronger. Let him be curious about you. AND BE PATIENT.
*Ask him on a date spontaneously. Make it look as if you didn’t plan it. (eg. Text, “I’m craving a McFlurry!! Drop what ur doing and hit the drive-thru w me? “)
*Tease him, but just a little. Do not overdo yourself or you’ll end up being too obvious.
*Whenever you are having conversation with him, BE INTERESTED! Make comments, ask questions on some of his kwento so that he’ll be encourage to talk more and your conversation will be prolonged.
*Ask him out “by accident.” Text him “What r u up to tonite?” When he replies, say, “Sorry that was for a friend—but yeah, what r u doing?” The tiny diss will make him work harder.
*Check out his clothes and ask about the sports team, band, or brand on his T-shirt. He’ll notice that you noticed.
*When you’re exchanging text messages, do not respond to all of his questions. He’ll be more invested in the conversation if he has to chase it a little!”
*Flirt before you see him when you will go on a date.
*Make him nervous. There are so many ways to do this, and make it look cute!
*Flirt with your eyes.
*Give him a hard time. But not much because playing hard to get is not really cool.
There you have it, I am not saying that all of these are effective but there is nothing wrong about trying, right? Just remember, before you flirt with a guy think if he likes flirting because some other guys might get turned off. Beware!
Goodluck! Girl power.
credits to seventeen.com